- I want autonomy.
- I want stability.
- I want alignment between my values and my work.
- I want to use my mind creatively.
- I want my children to have a present parent.
- I want to live within my health limits.
This is not selfish. This is practical. This is sustainable.
Weโve been trained to believe that ambitions must be:
- prestigious
- externally impressive
- academically pure
- self-sacrificing
But building a life that suits our nervous system and, in some cases, disabilities, is not selfish โ itโs wise.ย
Life is too short to live a life that costs more than it gives.

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